Sometimes we look at people the wrong way, sometimes we judge them by the wrong that they may do, when in reality we have no clue, actions may create reactions we don't know of. You have to put yourself in their shoes looking at life through their eyes, even if we may not understand their cry's. You have to look at their intentions were they good? were they bad? Were they sad? or were they mad? If you truly look at the situation with an open heart and try to comprehend the message that's sent, it will have an affect on your perspective.